Nobody should ever settle for less but most usually do. Maybe it's not even settling for less, more like being content where you are so the search doesn't have to continue forever. Everyone gave Shakespeare all this credit for the Romeo and Juliet thing, but Juliet kills herself for love. That's probably where it began, love blinds you and it makes you do crazy things. When you are so caught up with another person it's easy to lose touch with yourself.
As hard as it may be to leave someone- if they don't have a positive impact in your life than you need to bite the bullet and move on. In the same respect if you have someone who does you no wrong and is a good thing than don't test it to see what bad could occur- just enjoy the greatness and it will continue.
The beauty of a relationship is knowing there is someone to complete you, have your back above all others, and make you smile right when you thought nothing could. It seems like a simple equation so why is it the hardest one to solve?
Getting to the main point of why I even began this specific post, why is it that females are always the ones who "play games" and make things "complicated?" Females are so easy to please. To all the men (or should I say boys) who read this post, think of AAA as your insurance when it comes to the game. AAA... Acknowledge them, appreciate them, and give them a little attention. A little wine and dine with some shopping in between definitely won't hurt either, but it's not even necessary.
If I cook for you, clean for you, give you a shoulder to cry on and can kick it like one of the guys while you are tuned into Madden for hours on end, you can start by saying thank you and asking me how my day was. Give the girl a compliment in the morning when you wake up and she will find nothing to bitch about to you later on when she gets home. We are happy to do these things for you as long as you don't oversee them and expect it all the time without making us feel good in return.
When you have a girl that seems too good to be true why must you try to find the imperfection? Men are always presented with someone who could not be more right for their personality and situation, but the guys always still look for more. Time and time again have I heard stories from my friends and experienced it myself; when a good woman is handed to you on a silver platter do not try to find superwoman on a gold one because she doesn't exist and in turn you will end up with an empty platter....or a plate of bologna (how rewarding)....
When a woman's fed up there isn't anything you can do. You may push certain girls to their limits and still have them at the end of the day, but that doesn't last forever. All you're doing is pushing them into the arms of someone who will take the time to treat them right. Ladies get worried that if they lose what they have they may not get another. They don't have the courage to take a chance of the grass being greener on the other side, but men don't have the courage to settle when they already know it's a good thing. Both will bite you in the ass. In hopes of nobody ending up alone, let the games go. Live it and love it.
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